How to Survive Rejection Or a Bad Book Review

Unless an author has a colossal ego, he feelsyou. Bat those eyes and work the hips. It's much
some measure of dejection after receiving amore desirable to be wooed than to woo in this
rejection letter from a literary agent or publisher. Ibusiness. Be patient and build a reputation for your
was no exception. In responding to or internalizingbook and yourself as an author. Create a buzz
the rejection, the author needs to draw fromand allow for the ripple effect. If you can
those same reserves of tenacity and resiliencegenerate sufficient interest at a grassroots level
that enabled him to complete the book.for a book that has merit and commercial
I never approached publishers with the book, butpotential, the larger publishers and agents will
did shop it out to approximately forty-five literarycome to you.
agents. I received plenty of rejection letters. ToReviews are more of a wildcard. Even a
my pleasant surprise, I also received a letter ofcommercial hit can be panned by the critics. As an
interest from a prominent agent in Los Angeles.English Lit major, I had to work hard to set aside
Representation was contingent on my making theconvention and write honestly and from the heart.
novel entirely non-fiction, something I was unwillingI'm not suggesting you forget the rules of
to do. It's highly unlikely a first time author will landgrammar or three act construction. What I am
a literary agent. It seldom happens. If an agentsuggesting is that traditional and narrow "literary
does take on a neophyte author, there is a goodmerit" can be distinguished from contemporary
chance concessions will be demanded of thatand broader substantive merit. A book may not
author. Having an agent certainly helps opengo down as a classic, but if it's a good story told
doors, but is not essential. More and more authorswell, it will reach its desired audience and do more
are going it their own without an agent and areto establish your reputation as author than will
being met with a good deal of success.critical accolades. The critic that writes a negative
The literary agent's ultimatum made me evenreview often is focused on the literary merit of a
more determined to see that the book reachedwork, and not whether it is, simply, a well crafted
an audience on my terms. In order to retainand entertaining book. The focus is often on
creative control, I elected to use a print onwhether the work ranks as a "great book" using
demand publisher. In addition to offering the bookthe classics as yardstick. This is not realistic, nor
on Amazon and through four other e-tailers, Iparticularly relevant to anyone other than
released the work as an audiobook. May 2009 itnewspaper and magazine publishers that know
was the second most popular download onnegative reviews sell more copy than do positive
Podiobooks.com, with 8000 downloads in 4 days,reviews. Regardless of how neutral or altruistic
and remained on their top ten list for six weeks,the reviewer believes himself to be, they are, like
so it appears the book is finding that audience.the rest of us, fatally flawed humans with biases.
The point in sharing this experience is to driveAnd those biases taint their reviews. At the end
home the fact that the best way to deal withof the day, the old adage, "any press is good
rejection is to minimize the risk of rejection. Ifpress" holds true here, so long as there is some
you are a first time author and the first publisherspositive chatter to offset the hatchet jobs.
you approach are the conglomerate publishingFor me, personally, rejection or a critical review
houses, you are setting yourself up for rejection.strengthens my resolve to achieve my goals for
If you are a first time author and you sendthe book. It helps motivate me to get more
letters of inquiry to literary agents at CAA andcreative in devising workaround alternatives to
William Morris, you are setting yourself up formainstream distribution channels and marketing. If
rejection. If you are a first time author and youa particular agent, publisher or critic responded
send your galley to the New York Times ornegatively to the work, how do I reach an agent,
Atlantic Weekly for a book review, you arepublisher or critic that may be more receptive to
setting yourself up for rejection. It is good to bemy story and its presentation? Always keep in
self-confident in your skill set as author and inmind that publishing is a business. A rejection is
your finished product, but when it's the first dancenot necessarily a commentary on the quality of
at the cotillion, don't start with the Fortune 500your story or the telling of it; it is often nothing
heirs. Demonstrate your grace and prowess onmore than a commentary on its perceived
the ballroom floor with a lesser suitor, and allowcommerciality.
the titans of industry to take notice and pursue